The Hunger and Dear John Letters

Life is sometimes weird and sometimes funny and often times both. As I get older I appreciate both the oddity and the humor and relish those times when both collide.

I received a dear John letter from my most recent friend with benefits buddy. Another unsatisfied, bored, restless housewife who wanted to take a walk on the wilder side. Though she claimed no interest or intent on more than a safe, sane, sexual relationship something happened. Her stated intentions collided with her emotions and resulted in me receiving a Dear John letter.

You know the type, Dear John, I have to take a break. It has become obvious that I can not be satisfied with a purely physical relationship. I'm miserable. I'll always love you yada yada yada, blah blah blah. It was fun while it lasted and I am glad that I was able to open her up to experiences and possibilities she was curious about but couldn't realize on her own. I was her sexual Sherpa. But not a soul mate. I couldn't be.

I chat with many people, and have a few close confidants. One, in particular, reads this blog. She is one of the sexiest people on the planet, without even trying. There are times I think she either has a secret life or wants one. And, oh how I'd love to be part of it.

We need to have this conversation, and see if we both feel the same way and then find a way to discreetly take it to the next level. I can easily imagine having her sit in my office chair with my face buried in her wet pussy, her head thrown back, eyes closed, mouth open, body shaking. YUM! Don't you think?

Fuck Buddies and Other Strangers

Its been a while since I have blogged. Life has been busy on every front.

I met a woman on Ashley Madison (the site whose tag line is "when monogamy becomes monotony) Like so many adult sites most of the people there are FOS, phonies, fakes or wannabes.

Some have it all together and know what they seek.

I met a local married woman, desperately bored with life who needed some excitement. She had "never done anything like this" before but was drowning in boredom. Being the chivalrous guy I am I thought it my duty to rescue her.

What ensued was utterly unexpected. I quickly discovered this woman simply needed to have her sexuality unlocked and when it was, wow. She reported 13 years of vanilla sex before we met. While she was cautious at first once we developed a level of trust she was willing to spread her wings (and her legs) and experiment. Our sexual adventures could best be described, to stick with the ice cream metaphor, as 29 flavors.

All was going great until she realized she wasn't bored at all, she was miserable. She had married the wrong man.

Our fuck buddy fun was over. Not because she wanted it to be but because her expectations changed. We remain friends but, she has found a similarly situated guy to hang with. Lucky him. Hope he is in shape and open minded.

I learned that when a woman says she is bored in her marriage she may be telling the truth or searching for it. I also realized that even the shyest, most vanilla person has fantasies and desires and, when unleashed with the right person, they can way exceed expectations.
It also made me realize how much I would love to eat and fuck Ms Morningside. Can I?

Am I a bad guy

What would your opinion be of a guy who meets a bored 40 yo married woman and unleashed her hidden sexual being?

I mean she did have a profile on one of the married and looking sites and she did answer my nearly innocent email greeting and she did meet me two days later and was wearing a skirt with no panties and had a hungry kiss.

She did meet me the following week and and hop into my front seat hike up her skirt spread her legs, take my hand and pull it to her soaking wet pussy.

She did have me come to her house the next week and meet me at the door dressed in a sexy white nightie with eyelets and proceed to give me a tour of the house ending in the guest room where I was made to feel right at home.

She did taste incredible, and feel incredible and try anything I asked. She is open minded and adventurous and curious. She is attractive and fun...

I think she used me! I was used! Yeah I was used! Can't wait to be used more...

The song if it feels this good being used... then keep on using me until you use me up... She wants a 3way mmf and mff. Any takers?

Am I the only one

Do you ever get so horny you think you'll explode if you don't have sex? Masturbation isn't enough unless stimulated by something more (video, chat, email, erotic literature)?

Better still you find yourself combing the hook-up sites hoping you find someone who, by sheer chance, is in the same near desperate way?

A lady friend I was chatting with last night said she thought women may find themselves in this predicament more often than men. I'd be amazed, relieved and intrigued if that was true.

I joined Ashley Madison Agency recently. I heard about it on the radio and was curious. Their marketing slogan is "when monogamy becomes monotony". Doesn't it always?

I am always hoping to find someone I know, in vanilla life, on these sites.

I am surprised at the number of married women who are members. It seems monotony knows no gender boundaries and that women are as hell bent on not being bored as men.

Billy Crystal once quipped that women need a reason to have sex, men just need a place. I would adapt that a bit since we are in the internet age and say that women can be satisfied just exploring the possibilities while men want to actually meet.

Interestingly, married women in their 30s seem most open to something on the side. That is if you look at the age spread on AM. My experience indicates that women in the 40s want to actually have a fling. I am not sure if this is because I am in that age range and 40 Something women are more incline to stay in their age group or because they truly are ready to fuck for real.

In the meantime... would you dear reader like to get your pussy eaten?

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Even Famous People Like Threesomes

The plot thickens.

The revelation by Former NJ governor McGreevy's personal driver that he, his boss and the former first lady of NJ were a regular thang for a couple of years offers further proof that 3ways aren't just for biker chicks and their buddies.

How unfortunate that she couldn't stand up and say "Hell Yeah I did it and I loved it and all you married women out there who's husbands have suggested it are out of your mind if you don;t give it a go!"

Fact is I have yet to meet a married woman who tried a mfm threesome that didn't thoroughly enjoy the experience. Not one. Even the married women who did it without hubby's knowledge (hehehehehehe guilty). Or the ones who held back because they didn't want hubby to know how much they were loving it (which only lasted til the second time when all bets were off)

I met a woman online a few years ago. She was delightful to chat with. Head screwed on tight, a mom and a teacher. Her husband was retired military. They were in their early 40s and she admitted looking to ad some spice to their love life. She and I met for lunch and really enjoyed just talking. She admitted her husband had been hounding her to do a 3some but she didn't like any of the guys she hung with and asked me if I'd be willing. My response was, predictably, Oh YEAH!

It was arranged. I met them at a hotel and when I walked into the room he was fully clothed and she seated on the bed in a black lace bra and pantie set. Obviously nervous and self conscious. She, in fact, looked terrific and I walked over and told her so and planted a warm wet kiss on her mouth.

I had not met her husband before this and wasn't quite sure about him yet but, he quickly took the hint joined me with his wife and started to pay the right kind of attention.

We slowly kissed and sucked and licked every inch of her we could. And then I suggested they get more comfortable while I freshened up. When I came out of the bathroom he was naked and she was on all fours sucking his cock.. I knelt behind her and started kissing and licking the backs of her thighs and her cheeks. She seemed to like it so I got naked and proceeded to remove her panties returning to my knees to lick her pussy and ass. She seemed to love this. The more I tongue fucked her the harder she sucked him. All I heard him say was "I don;t know what you are doing but don;t stop you are my new best friend."

I stood, rolled on a condom, and slid my cock into her soaking wet pussy. HE switched around to 69 with her and sucked her clit while I took her deep and slow from behind. I felt his hand caressing my balls which I love. I didn't last long after that.

He and I switched places and she sucked on my softening cock while he slam fucked her from behind. He spanked her and she responded like a race horse shown the whip. She loved it and started to really fuck back while I sucked and tongued her clit. She had a big clit and a delicious pussy.

He came with a loud groan and as he pulled his cock out of her she ground her fresh fucked pussy on my mouth. I had told her I liked cream pies and she fed me one of the best I have ever had. It was delicious and she had her third strong orgasm while I did it.

They settled into a warm cuddle and I suggested I leave them to enjoy the afterglow in private.

I got a wonderful email from her the next day..

It simply said... You made me feel beautiful. Thank-you

For some reason many women seem to think enjoying the pleasures of two men or another woman and their husband is somehow debasing and demeaning. That has not been my experience at all.

I think when the aim is to make the woman feel beautiful the outcome is amazing.

Eliot Spitzer and the Double Standard

When Bill got caught getting his cock sucked and using cigar tubes a s a dildo on Monica's sweet young pussy I was amazed at how many women, my wife inlcuded, gave him a pass. Powerful boys will be boys. Hillary stood by her man some say because while Bill was feeding Monica, Hillary was elsewhere in the mansion enjoying her own pussy meal. Who knows.

Now Eliot Ness gets caught with his cock in the cookie jar. Wife standing right next to him with a sly smile and sad eyes. Could the smile be related to her assurance of getting 50% of his estimated $500 Million fortune? Or could it be that she knows that two's company and three's a BLAST! I doubt it.

Those of us who have dabbled in the lifestyle know that looks aren't everything. I've had some extraordinary experiences with ordinary people and, thankfully, others have over looked my ordinaryness (is there such a word) to include me in their fun. That said if I paid $4,000 bucks for a two hour session that woman would have to be off the hook gorgeous and bring five friends .

I'd also insist that she be older than the shoes in my closet.

I guess he isn't getting off totally scott free. I mean the fucking he is now getting probably isn't worth the fucking he was getting.

On another note. my wife worked late the other night and I was at the gym when she got home. When I got home she was asleep and as I undressed to shower I found her panties rolled up in a ball in the hamper. The crotch was all stuck together, obviously loaded with cum. Hmmm working late.... instant hardon

Never Judge a Book by Its Cover

I used to own a bar. It wasn't as much fun as I thought it would be. Long hours, not enough classy clientel and bartenders that thought they were my partner.

I had an older female bartender. A divorce`. She seemed normal most of the time but every once in a while she would reveal a hint of crazy. Mind you she didn't ooze crazy but you always sensed there was something behind the curtain.

Late one night as we closed she blurted out that I intrigued her. I let it pass. For a host of reasons I had a strict policy of not mixing business and pleasure though it was clear she'd be interested and she was hot.

After I sold the business she continued to work there under the new owner. Every now and then she's send me an email to bring me up to date on the goings on at my old place. She invited me to her myspace page which required me to establish one. I have since let it go fallow. Through her I met some of her online friends. One in Florida, who used to live here. This friend revealed the true depth of how intrigued her friend was with me. As we chatted more and more she revealed in great detail my old colleagues not so secret desires for me and in graphic detail.

I sensed I was missing something obvious so I asked if she and her husband and my old colleague were more than good friends. Low and behold they were. They had been regular play pals before they moved to Florida. Though tempted to pursue this now that I am no longer associated business wise I have not.

But it got me to thinking.

Have you ever met someone in vanilla life that you sensed had an adventurous side that you were just dying to get to know. I don't mean eye candy that you wonder about naked. I mean someone you've talked to, gotten to know, flirted with innocently and sensed they might want it to be something more than innocent.

But how to find out? It's an exciting thought. Another friend had some pics of friends on her myspace site. Some very hot women who just looked like they had an adventurous side... hmmmm I wonder...

One of the hottest experiences I ever had was with a good friend and a woman we knew. She was married, late 40s, was a librarian and looked it walking down the street. But when she peeled off the top layer of clothes she was anything but what she appeared to be. She was one hot fuck and really enjoyed it. Never judge a book by its cover.

The Kinsey Scale: Double Standard or Double Penetration

Being fascinated with all things human nature I am always interested in subject matter that deals with sexuality and sexual identification.

Kinsey's research suggested that the vast majority of us are bisexual to one extent or another. That is not to say we act out sexually with both sexes it merely pointed out that there are things we prefer to do with those of the same sex versus the opposite. Watching football is infinitely better with the guys for instance.

Having been involved in both mff and mfm threesomes - I prefer mfm - it always surprises me how natural female to female contact is in the situation. It is always comfortable, hot and brings a hightened sense of passion and arousal to ALL not just the male participant.

Publicly it is not so in the MFM side of the world. Though behind closed doors I can tell you it is just as prevalent and every bit as hot. The first time a woman suggested i help her orally satisfy her husband in a mfm I was shocked almost to death. We were so into the experience and I liked and trusted them so much I went with it and lo and behold it was great. The best part was how hard she came watching, up close and personal. My cock was deep in her pussy, his cock in my mouth and I was looking her straight in the eye. When a woman cums her eyes roll back in her head. Its an incredibly erotic site.

I am not into guys... at all. But I am into erotic pleasure to the max and when two or more people find something, generally considered taboo, to be erotic and fun then I say go for it as long as it is between consenting adults.

Europeans have a much healthier view of sexuality. They have far fewer hangups and stereotypes and, as a result, they seem to find more fun and joy in sexual adventure.

When in Rome do as the Romans, When not in Roman think and act like you are!

Simple yes and no even maybe

My friend read my blog here and responded with a list of yeses and nos. I was not shocked. Pleasantly surprised yes, but not shocked.

My cock was rock hard as I matched the yeses and nos to the specific questions. I most definitely want to taste her pussy and let her taste herself on my lips. The question is when? And what will I find? trimmed or shaven? How wet does she get?

Ah the mysteries of a woman. Sublime and wonderful. Will she ever be able to speak of these things in detail without feeling shy?

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Uncorking the bottle

I have a friend.

Someone I respect and admire very much. She is a spectacular human being. The quintessential nice girl. She is inquisitive and smart, creative and thoughtful. You would never guess that below the surface, just below I'm guessing, exists a smoldering sexual being of untold depth.

I'm guessing she is a great fuck and loves fucking. I'll bet she sucks cock and loves it and is incredibly talented at it. i think she harbors curiosity about the taste of another woman's pussy as much as I harbor the desire to taste hers.. I wonder if she would like the taste of her pussy on my lips.

I'll bet she would revel in the incredible pleasure of having two cocks at once. I wonder if she likes getting fucked in the ass. I could see her eyes rolling back in her head, her mouth open slack jawed and a low moan escaping. I could see her hot blonde girlfriend grinding her wet pussy on her mouth.

Some fantasy... almost but not quite shocking.

In Celebration of Body Shapes

When I first became facinated with the lifestyle I, like many, thought it was a place for Barbie and Ken look alikes. Imagine my surprise when I attended my first meet and greet and thought I was at a PTA meeting. Yes, the music was playing and the booz flowing but, had I not known differently, I would have never guessed the people in the room were there for anything more than good music, good drinks and good friends.

Why I expected to find people in various stages of undress, or dressed like street walkers and Chippendale boys I'll never know. But, I did.

What I found was a cross section of people age and body wise. The personalities were as varied as you'd find anywhere; from shy to outgoing, quiet to gregarious, friendly to not so friendly. I was also pleasantly surprised that in this community how you behave is far more important than what you look like.

On the play front my observations, hardly scientific or projectable, are that the more average the people the fun they are. I have had incredible sexy times with people who would describe themselves as average, maybe a little extra padding, look good in jeans and a sweat shirt. Attitude is everything. Confidence without ego and cockiness is very much a turn on for me.

Well spoken, not brainiac but articulate, people are my favorites. Body wise I like proportional bodies. Not rail thin or morbidly obese but the range in between is pretty wide for me. I go to the gym regularly though I am not mr six pack abs, nor am I carrying a keg. I like different shapes. I am not a breast man. If I have a preference in this area it is to the smaller side, 34C and smaller. I have put my cock between 40DD and enjoyed it but I do ascribe to the adage that more than a mouthful's a waste.

Nice legs athletic not tooth picks make me weak in the knees. A shapely ass, bubble butts, slightly ample make me swoon. I love eating a woman from behiind. There ios something incredible about it.

How about you?

Married Man Playing Alone Less Onerous with Age

Let's face it double standards abound everywhere in life. The lifestyle is no different. Married men playing alone have to be exceptional individuals if they hope to connect with anyone especially a committed couple. It does happen though. I am living proof.



Before you going off saying geez what an ego maniac. He thinks he's exceptional let me define terms. In this case exceptional would include:



- exceptionally rescpectful and humble

- exceptionally patient and respectful of both the wife and husband

- exceptionally humbled by the fact that he gets to share a gift

- exceptionally diligent in putting their pleasure first.



These requirements are true for all single guys in the lifestyle but especially so for married guys playing alone.



It seems older guys have an advantage. One of the few places we do. Probably because we have been married a loooong time and people more readily accept that good marriages change and evolve. Perhaps its because we know our way around a woman's body and play it like a fine instrument not a drum set. Maybe its that we are more perceptive of body language and the subtle signs of intense enjoyment.



one of my favorite mmf 3some positions is woman on top in a chair facing away with her husband's cock deep in her while i suck and lick her clit. It's a position few women can resist surrending in and the look in a woman's face as she cums is incredible.

Who cheats?

I saw a statistic I found interesting. It suggested that 55% of married women have extramarital sex. The percentage is higher for married men but the gap between the two has narrowed immensely over the past decade. The really astounding fact is that 90% of the women stepping out feel they are entitled to do so. Is this a statement on the sad state of marital relationships or a sign of healthy self awareness and taking responsibility for ones own satisfaction and happiness.

I don't know but its a question worth asking.

The number of married people looking for something extra online sites has exploded. While men clearly outnumber women on these sites the gap here is also narrowing. The hot demographic seems to be 32-55, married more than 10 years, generally happy with the marriage on an emotional level but totally unfulfilled sexually.

I would love to ask women who are stepping out how much more they enjoy the extramarital sex with their buddy versus the sex at home. Do they think the sex at home could ever be as hot and physically fulfilling as it is outside? How to men feel? What percentage of women stepping out are simply letting the "dirty girl" in them loose versus looking for a deep meaningful relationship?

Every man's dream is a lady at the table and a wanton whore in bed? Could it be that it is every woman's secret dream as well?

Two's Company, Three's a BLAST!

A good friend suggested I blog on the subject of threesomes.

As an undergrad, many years ago, I read Roberth Rimmer's, The Harrod Experiment and have been fascinated with alternative lifestyles ever since.

I live a very vanilla life in public. I am married to a wonderful woman who is as conventional as they come. We've had our ups and downs and our relationship is best described as comfortable and friendly.

She knows I have a fascination with alternative lifestyles and I have even suggested we dabble. Not her cup-o-tea so no dice. But, her unwillingness did not stop the fascination or the resulting fantasies and the building curiosity that just had to become reality... and did.

No regrets. No guilt. No split loyalties or alienated affections.

HBO's Real Sex series depicts a swingers convention (camp out) as representative of the lifestyle and people in it. True most people I've met are as normal as anyone else you'd meet at the grocery or the soccer field. They do come in many shapes and sizes, transcend the full age spectrum and are as diverse personality wise as the rest of the population. The only difference is they separate sex from love making and enjoy both with gusto. The sex part involves others in various combinations.

I have been third to a number of couples, mostly married, and have found two things. First, these friendships last and second the sex is awesome. I have also found that the women enjoy it more than the men (although its close) and harbor no guilt or shame in the fact. They love being the center of attention and even the most reserved revel in the fact that two men are devoted to bringing them to levels of pleasure that grow with each encounter.

MFM threesomes are my favorite, though I have done FMF as well. FMF is too much work for a guy who likes to give pleasure more than get. Both are total sensory experiences. The sights, sounds, smells and tastes (especially the tastes) are indescribably good.

The secret is the lady is the center of attention and directs, either assertively or subtly, the action. When three people really get into it you'd be surprised what can happen. Boundaries, though always respected, are often redefined. It's all good!