Do you ever get so horny you think you'll explode if you don't have sex? Masturbation isn't enough unless stimulated by something more (video, chat, email, erotic literature)?
Better still you find yourself combing the hook-up sites hoping you find someone who, by sheer chance, is in the same near desperate way?
A lady friend I was chatting with last night said she thought women may find themselves in this predicament more often than men. I'd be amazed, relieved and intrigued if that was true.
I joined Ashley Madison Agency recently. I heard about it on the radio and was curious. Their marketing slogan is "when monogamy becomes monotony". Doesn't it always?
I am always hoping to find someone I know, in vanilla life, on these sites.
I am surprised at the number of married women who are members. It seems monotony knows no gender boundaries and that women are as hell bent on not being bored as men.
Billy Crystal once quipped that women need a reason to have sex, men just need a place. I would adapt that a bit since we are in the internet age and say that women can be satisfied just exploring the possibilities while men want to actually meet.
Interestingly, married women in their 30s seem most open to something on the side. That is if you look at the age spread on AM. My experience indicates that women in the 40s want to actually have a fling. I am not sure if this is because I am in that age range and 40 Something women are more incline to stay in their age group or because they truly are ready to fuck for real.
In the meantime... would you dear reader like to get your pussy eaten?
Wednesday, April 23, 2008
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Monday, March 24, 2008
Even Famous People Like Threesomes
The plot thickens.
The revelation by Former NJ governor McGreevy's personal driver that he, his boss and the former first lady of NJ were a regular thang for a couple of years offers further proof that 3ways aren't just for biker chicks and their buddies.
How unfortunate that she couldn't stand up and say "Hell Yeah I did it and I loved it and all you married women out there who's husbands have suggested it are out of your mind if you don;t give it a go!"
Fact is I have yet to meet a married woman who tried a mfm threesome that didn't thoroughly enjoy the experience. Not one. Even the married women who did it without hubby's knowledge (hehehehehehe guilty). Or the ones who held back because they didn't want hubby to know how much they were loving it (which only lasted til the second time when all bets were off)
I met a woman online a few years ago. She was delightful to chat with. Head screwed on tight, a mom and a teacher. Her husband was retired military. They were in their early 40s and she admitted looking to ad some spice to their love life. She and I met for lunch and really enjoyed just talking. She admitted her husband had been hounding her to do a 3some but she didn't like any of the guys she hung with and asked me if I'd be willing. My response was, predictably, Oh YEAH!
It was arranged. I met them at a hotel and when I walked into the room he was fully clothed and she seated on the bed in a black lace bra and pantie set. Obviously nervous and self conscious. She, in fact, looked terrific and I walked over and told her so and planted a warm wet kiss on her mouth.
I had not met her husband before this and wasn't quite sure about him yet but, he quickly took the hint joined me with his wife and started to pay the right kind of attention.
We slowly kissed and sucked and licked every inch of her we could. And then I suggested they get more comfortable while I freshened up. When I came out of the bathroom he was naked and she was on all fours sucking his cock.. I knelt behind her and started kissing and licking the backs of her thighs and her cheeks. She seemed to like it so I got naked and proceeded to remove her panties returning to my knees to lick her pussy and ass. She seemed to love this. The more I tongue fucked her the harder she sucked him. All I heard him say was "I don;t know what you are doing but don;t stop you are my new best friend."
I stood, rolled on a condom, and slid my cock into her soaking wet pussy. HE switched around to 69 with her and sucked her clit while I took her deep and slow from behind. I felt his hand caressing my balls which I love. I didn't last long after that.
He and I switched places and she sucked on my softening cock while he slam fucked her from behind. He spanked her and she responded like a race horse shown the whip. She loved it and started to really fuck back while I sucked and tongued her clit. She had a big clit and a delicious pussy.
He came with a loud groan and as he pulled his cock out of her she ground her fresh fucked pussy on my mouth. I had told her I liked cream pies and she fed me one of the best I have ever had. It was delicious and she had her third strong orgasm while I did it.
They settled into a warm cuddle and I suggested I leave them to enjoy the afterglow in private.
I got a wonderful email from her the next day..
It simply said... You made me feel beautiful. Thank-you
For some reason many women seem to think enjoying the pleasures of two men or another woman and their husband is somehow debasing and demeaning. That has not been my experience at all.
I think when the aim is to make the woman feel beautiful the outcome is amazing.
The revelation by Former NJ governor McGreevy's personal driver that he, his boss and the former first lady of NJ were a regular thang for a couple of years offers further proof that 3ways aren't just for biker chicks and their buddies.
How unfortunate that she couldn't stand up and say "Hell Yeah I did it and I loved it and all you married women out there who's husbands have suggested it are out of your mind if you don;t give it a go!"
Fact is I have yet to meet a married woman who tried a mfm threesome that didn't thoroughly enjoy the experience. Not one. Even the married women who did it without hubby's knowledge (hehehehehehe guilty). Or the ones who held back because they didn't want hubby to know how much they were loving it (which only lasted til the second time when all bets were off)
I met a woman online a few years ago. She was delightful to chat with. Head screwed on tight, a mom and a teacher. Her husband was retired military. They were in their early 40s and she admitted looking to ad some spice to their love life. She and I met for lunch and really enjoyed just talking. She admitted her husband had been hounding her to do a 3some but she didn't like any of the guys she hung with and asked me if I'd be willing. My response was, predictably, Oh YEAH!
It was arranged. I met them at a hotel and when I walked into the room he was fully clothed and she seated on the bed in a black lace bra and pantie set. Obviously nervous and self conscious. She, in fact, looked terrific and I walked over and told her so and planted a warm wet kiss on her mouth.
I had not met her husband before this and wasn't quite sure about him yet but, he quickly took the hint joined me with his wife and started to pay the right kind of attention.
We slowly kissed and sucked and licked every inch of her we could. And then I suggested they get more comfortable while I freshened up. When I came out of the bathroom he was naked and she was on all fours sucking his cock.. I knelt behind her and started kissing and licking the backs of her thighs and her cheeks. She seemed to like it so I got naked and proceeded to remove her panties returning to my knees to lick her pussy and ass. She seemed to love this. The more I tongue fucked her the harder she sucked him. All I heard him say was "I don;t know what you are doing but don;t stop you are my new best friend."
I stood, rolled on a condom, and slid my cock into her soaking wet pussy. HE switched around to 69 with her and sucked her clit while I took her deep and slow from behind. I felt his hand caressing my balls which I love. I didn't last long after that.
He and I switched places and she sucked on my softening cock while he slam fucked her from behind. He spanked her and she responded like a race horse shown the whip. She loved it and started to really fuck back while I sucked and tongued her clit. She had a big clit and a delicious pussy.
He came with a loud groan and as he pulled his cock out of her she ground her fresh fucked pussy on my mouth. I had told her I liked cream pies and she fed me one of the best I have ever had. It was delicious and she had her third strong orgasm while I did it.
They settled into a warm cuddle and I suggested I leave them to enjoy the afterglow in private.
I got a wonderful email from her the next day..
It simply said... You made me feel beautiful. Thank-you
For some reason many women seem to think enjoying the pleasures of two men or another woman and their husband is somehow debasing and demeaning. That has not been my experience at all.
I think when the aim is to make the woman feel beautiful the outcome is amazing.
Friday, March 14, 2008
Eliot Spitzer and the Double Standard
When Bill got caught getting his cock sucked and using cigar tubes a s a dildo on Monica's sweet young pussy I was amazed at how many women, my wife inlcuded, gave him a pass. Powerful boys will be boys. Hillary stood by her man some say because while Bill was feeding Monica, Hillary was elsewhere in the mansion enjoying her own pussy meal. Who knows.
Now Eliot Ness gets caught with his cock in the cookie jar. Wife standing right next to him with a sly smile and sad eyes. Could the smile be related to her assurance of getting 50% of his estimated $500 Million fortune? Or could it be that she knows that two's company and three's a BLAST! I doubt it.
Those of us who have dabbled in the lifestyle know that looks aren't everything. I've had some extraordinary experiences with ordinary people and, thankfully, others have over looked my ordinaryness (is there such a word) to include me in their fun. That said if I paid $4,000 bucks for a two hour session that woman would have to be off the hook gorgeous and bring five friends .
I'd also insist that she be older than the shoes in my closet.
I guess he isn't getting off totally scott free. I mean the fucking he is now getting probably isn't worth the fucking he was getting.
On another note. my wife worked late the other night and I was at the gym when she got home. When I got home she was asleep and as I undressed to shower I found her panties rolled up in a ball in the hamper. The crotch was all stuck together, obviously loaded with cum. Hmmm working late.... instant hardon
Now Eliot Ness gets caught with his cock in the cookie jar. Wife standing right next to him with a sly smile and sad eyes. Could the smile be related to her assurance of getting 50% of his estimated $500 Million fortune? Or could it be that she knows that two's company and three's a BLAST! I doubt it.
Those of us who have dabbled in the lifestyle know that looks aren't everything. I've had some extraordinary experiences with ordinary people and, thankfully, others have over looked my ordinaryness (is there such a word) to include me in their fun. That said if I paid $4,000 bucks for a two hour session that woman would have to be off the hook gorgeous and bring five friends .
I'd also insist that she be older than the shoes in my closet.
I guess he isn't getting off totally scott free. I mean the fucking he is now getting probably isn't worth the fucking he was getting.
On another note. my wife worked late the other night and I was at the gym when she got home. When I got home she was asleep and as I undressed to shower I found her panties rolled up in a ball in the hamper. The crotch was all stuck together, obviously loaded with cum. Hmmm working late.... instant hardon
Monday, March 3, 2008
Never Judge a Book by Its Cover
I used to own a bar. It wasn't as much fun as I thought it would be. Long hours, not enough classy clientel and bartenders that thought they were my partner.
I had an older female bartender. A divorce`. She seemed normal most of the time but every once in a while she would reveal a hint of crazy. Mind you she didn't ooze crazy but you always sensed there was something behind the curtain.
Late one night as we closed she blurted out that I intrigued her. I let it pass. For a host of reasons I had a strict policy of not mixing business and pleasure though it was clear she'd be interested and she was hot.
After I sold the business she continued to work there under the new owner. Every now and then she's send me an email to bring me up to date on the goings on at my old place. She invited me to her myspace page which required me to establish one. I have since let it go fallow. Through her I met some of her online friends. One in Florida, who used to live here. This friend revealed the true depth of how intrigued her friend was with me. As we chatted more and more she revealed in great detail my old colleagues not so secret desires for me and in graphic detail.
I sensed I was missing something obvious so I asked if she and her husband and my old colleague were more than good friends. Low and behold they were. They had been regular play pals before they moved to Florida. Though tempted to pursue this now that I am no longer associated business wise I have not.
But it got me to thinking.
Have you ever met someone in vanilla life that you sensed had an adventurous side that you were just dying to get to know. I don't mean eye candy that you wonder about naked. I mean someone you've talked to, gotten to know, flirted with innocently and sensed they might want it to be something more than innocent.
But how to find out? It's an exciting thought. Another friend had some pics of friends on her myspace site. Some very hot women who just looked like they had an adventurous side... hmmmm I wonder...
One of the hottest experiences I ever had was with a good friend and a woman we knew. She was married, late 40s, was a librarian and looked it walking down the street. But when she peeled off the top layer of clothes she was anything but what she appeared to be. She was one hot fuck and really enjoyed it. Never judge a book by its cover.
I had an older female bartender. A divorce`. She seemed normal most of the time but every once in a while she would reveal a hint of crazy. Mind you she didn't ooze crazy but you always sensed there was something behind the curtain.
Late one night as we closed she blurted out that I intrigued her. I let it pass. For a host of reasons I had a strict policy of not mixing business and pleasure though it was clear she'd be interested and she was hot.
After I sold the business she continued to work there under the new owner. Every now and then she's send me an email to bring me up to date on the goings on at my old place. She invited me to her myspace page which required me to establish one. I have since let it go fallow. Through her I met some of her online friends. One in Florida, who used to live here. This friend revealed the true depth of how intrigued her friend was with me. As we chatted more and more she revealed in great detail my old colleagues not so secret desires for me and in graphic detail.
I sensed I was missing something obvious so I asked if she and her husband and my old colleague were more than good friends. Low and behold they were. They had been regular play pals before they moved to Florida. Though tempted to pursue this now that I am no longer associated business wise I have not.
But it got me to thinking.
Have you ever met someone in vanilla life that you sensed had an adventurous side that you were just dying to get to know. I don't mean eye candy that you wonder about naked. I mean someone you've talked to, gotten to know, flirted with innocently and sensed they might want it to be something more than innocent.
But how to find out? It's an exciting thought. Another friend had some pics of friends on her myspace site. Some very hot women who just looked like they had an adventurous side... hmmmm I wonder...
One of the hottest experiences I ever had was with a good friend and a woman we knew. She was married, late 40s, was a librarian and looked it walking down the street. But when she peeled off the top layer of clothes she was anything but what she appeared to be. She was one hot fuck and really enjoyed it. Never judge a book by its cover.
Thursday, February 28, 2008
The Kinsey Scale: Double Standard or Double Penetration
Being fascinated with all things human nature I am always interested in subject matter that deals with sexuality and sexual identification.
Kinsey's research suggested that the vast majority of us are bisexual to one extent or another. That is not to say we act out sexually with both sexes it merely pointed out that there are things we prefer to do with those of the same sex versus the opposite. Watching football is infinitely better with the guys for instance.
Having been involved in both mff and mfm threesomes - I prefer mfm - it always surprises me how natural female to female contact is in the situation. It is always comfortable, hot and brings a hightened sense of passion and arousal to ALL not just the male participant.
Publicly it is not so in the MFM side of the world. Though behind closed doors I can tell you it is just as prevalent and every bit as hot. The first time a woman suggested i help her orally satisfy her husband in a mfm I was shocked almost to death. We were so into the experience and I liked and trusted them so much I went with it and lo and behold it was great. The best part was how hard she came watching, up close and personal. My cock was deep in her pussy, his cock in my mouth and I was looking her straight in the eye. When a woman cums her eyes roll back in her head. Its an incredibly erotic site.
I am not into guys... at all. But I am into erotic pleasure to the max and when two or more people find something, generally considered taboo, to be erotic and fun then I say go for it as long as it is between consenting adults.
Europeans have a much healthier view of sexuality. They have far fewer hangups and stereotypes and, as a result, they seem to find more fun and joy in sexual adventure.
When in Rome do as the Romans, When not in Roman think and act like you are!
Kinsey's research suggested that the vast majority of us are bisexual to one extent or another. That is not to say we act out sexually with both sexes it merely pointed out that there are things we prefer to do with those of the same sex versus the opposite. Watching football is infinitely better with the guys for instance.
Having been involved in both mff and mfm threesomes - I prefer mfm - it always surprises me how natural female to female contact is in the situation. It is always comfortable, hot and brings a hightened sense of passion and arousal to ALL not just the male participant.
Publicly it is not so in the MFM side of the world. Though behind closed doors I can tell you it is just as prevalent and every bit as hot. The first time a woman suggested i help her orally satisfy her husband in a mfm I was shocked almost to death. We were so into the experience and I liked and trusted them so much I went with it and lo and behold it was great. The best part was how hard she came watching, up close and personal. My cock was deep in her pussy, his cock in my mouth and I was looking her straight in the eye. When a woman cums her eyes roll back in her head. Its an incredibly erotic site.
I am not into guys... at all. But I am into erotic pleasure to the max and when two or more people find something, generally considered taboo, to be erotic and fun then I say go for it as long as it is between consenting adults.
Europeans have a much healthier view of sexuality. They have far fewer hangups and stereotypes and, as a result, they seem to find more fun and joy in sexual adventure.
When in Rome do as the Romans, When not in Roman think and act like you are!
Friday, February 15, 2008
Simple yes and no even maybe
My friend read my blog here and responded with a list of yeses and nos. I was not shocked. Pleasantly surprised yes, but not shocked.
My cock was rock hard as I matched the yeses and nos to the specific questions. I most definitely want to taste her pussy and let her taste herself on my lips. The question is when? And what will I find? trimmed or shaven? How wet does she get?
Ah the mysteries of a woman. Sublime and wonderful. Will she ever be able to speak of these things in detail without feeling shy?
My cock was rock hard as I matched the yeses and nos to the specific questions. I most definitely want to taste her pussy and let her taste herself on my lips. The question is when? And what will I find? trimmed or shaven? How wet does she get?
Ah the mysteries of a woman. Sublime and wonderful. Will she ever be able to speak of these things in detail without feeling shy?
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