Eating Cream Pie

To paraphrase a line from Forrest Gump, nasty is what nasty does.

Did you ever notice how the definition of nasty flexs based upon who you are with and how you feel about them.

I happen to be a fanatic about oral sex. I absolutely love giving oral and don't mind getting it (lol). Most people I know see oral play as part of foreplay, the warm up. While I whole heartly agree, I see it as afterplay too. In fact, I fiond it even hotter afterplay and have succeeded in triggering more than a few powerful organisms when practicing the fine art of cunniligus after a greta fuck session.

Since I am vasectomy safe when I play with a woman or couple I know well I sometimes fuck bareback. I have noticed that whenI go down on a woman after one of these rare sessions, she almost always has a powerful orgasm. When queried why the answer is pretty consistent "the thought of your eating cum from my fresh fucked puccy is just sooooo hot." It seems especially hot whe I go down on a woman after both her husband/bf and I have filled her.

It is a sure fire way to recover for round 2 with me.

While some may find this a turn off in concept, in practice I have never met a woman who wasn't totally turned on in practice. Truth be known, it seems to trip a trigger within them and they let go and really enjoy the the session even more.

Anyone else experienced this?

I Often Wonder

I think most men wonder what it would be like to experience sex as a woman and maybe some women would like to trade places once or twice. I often wonder what goes through a woman's mind as the dance of seduction unfolds.

At what point does a woman know she would be open to a guy's advances? Is it instantaneous? Does the guy need to flirt, playfully ignore, make a frontal assault before a woman begins to wonder?

At what point does a woman accept the invitation to join the dance? By this I do not mean when does she seccumb but when does she say to herself.. I'll play along. I can always end it if it goes too far.

Is there a point where it goes so far a woman can't bring herself to say no? This is always a fascination for me. Is it that kiss that putss you over the edge/ Is it things we say, nasty or sexy? Is it being touched in a certain place or way?

I am quite certain there is a difference between single and attached women. When single women go for it it is usually an "oh what the heck" sure let's go someplace and fuck.

With married women it is all about letting go. Their lives are the very essence of self control and letting go becomes a near unnatural act for them even under their own roof. At home the worry is will he lose respect for me if I act the slutty whore? Will he suspect I'm cheating if I ask to try something new?

Outside the relationship the question boils down to is the risk worth the potential reward? CAn I respect myself if I act on my impulses? Most never find out.

For those that do make fantasy reality I think the field segments into three groups. The first group is the "I wish I hadn't done that" group. Either guilt riden or a bad experience propels this adventurer to vow never again.

The second group is the "wow, that was fun, I wouldn't want a steady diet of it but, a little strange now and then keeps me feeling alive" group. These women utilize the limited opportunities they allow themselves to explore and experiment. They are usually totally open about their desires especially if their dalliances are with a close circle of regulars or one for that matter.. Their eagerness to let go is the polar opposite of their conservative nature at home. When they let go they become voracious cock suckers, will ride your face like a rodeo cowgirl and fuck you until your cock falls off. They make great friends and the friendship endures even if the sex stops.

The third group is the "if I couldn't do this often I would go insane" group. Their extrarelationship activity often represents their whole sex life. They tend to be open to alternative lifestyle actvities, especially if they find their sexual soulmate. They love to fuck. They are great lovers but, when its over... its over.

Second Life - Anybody Into It

I admit I run hot and cold on it.

I first joined for purely professional reasons. Yes, there was a time when business people utilized second life to promote real life business activities and, in some cases, use the virtual world a s substitute meeting place .

I abandoned any pretense to professional use long ago. Now its all about meeting people, sharing fantasies and getting off. And, trust me I am not alone by a long shot.

Cyber sex never did it for me. Second Life sex does... don't ask me why. Perhaps its the mixture of verbal/textual communication and the visual sense of the avatar. Nearly everyone in Second Life is ripped , hot and wild.

It does amuse me though, when I read a profile that invariable claims that the person profiled NEVER mixes SL with RL (real life). Others go on to claim that their Second Life persona is nothing like them in real life.

It's even more comical when 30 seconds into a conversation you have their location, real age and often a good chunk of their life story.

I must admit I do not believe Second Life and First life are different and if they are its in degree only. IF you like being in a pile getting fucked, eaten and sucking a third cock all at the same time in Second Life, Chances are pretty good you have a strong fantasy in real life and very likely would be as satisfied having the real life experience as the virtual one.

I've done the voice thang with a few women on Second Life and believe me their response is not faked. When a woman is short of breath while chatting and claims she is masterbating I believe her.

The incidence of married women living out their secret life is very high on Second Life and why not.

Does anyone else have any experience to share or ideas on the subject? If you are on SL or decide to try it look me up... LongJon Destiny is the name.